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August 2013

Aug 28, 2013 427 notes
#racism #inappropriateness #wtf
Aug 16, 2013 232 notes
#bolded for truth #blurry edges #rape culture #the Pirate Problem #consent #male rape myths
Updated Library For Kinksters Article Listingsuicideharlot.tumblr.com

crashntumble:

dominantlife:

5 Languages of Love

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Truths To Live By

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

26 Baby Girl Jobs

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

50 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

Aftercare For Dominants

Age Play: A Short Guide

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Ask A Million And One Questions

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Basics of Breath Play

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Feminist Submissive

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

Finding Your Dominant

Getting Started in D/s: Defining your Relationship Needs

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

Guide To Bruising

Guide to Consent

Help For New Doms

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Find A Dom

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Meditation And Mindfulness

Novice Submissives

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

Online Aftercare

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK.

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

So you want to be a Dom?

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Some LIttle Rules All Daddies Should Know

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

When He Doesn’t Call

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Your Rights As A Submissive

bleh

on about a dozen different levels, bleh.

with liberal doses of sigh, grr, fuck this, and oh for fuck’s sake.


This is seriously one of the most depressing things I’ve seen in weeks. I can’t even believe the note counts on some of this crap. 

So much fail, both meta and direct. Individually, they're… not great. But putting them all together like this… jesus. I barely have the words. Let’s just say, it’s worse than the sum of its parts. So much worse.

The assumptions! The essentialism! The schizophrenia! 
The repetitiveness. The endlessly regurgitated dogma.
The total, exclusive focus on M/f.
The near-complete lack of qualification.

And the worst thing about this— the absolute worst, most depressing thing— is that this is totally representative.

98% crap and 2% potentially useful information? Yeah, that’s pretty standard.
Lord save me from internexperts. Lord save me from 4th-wave kink.

Ugh.

Aug 16, 2013 1,287 notes
#worth less than the ink it took to print it #we can do better

June 2013

Jun 19, 2013 1,137 notes
#rarefication #kink university

May 2013

May 25, 2013 296 notes
wiseone6602: Why white women want to breed with black menwiseone6602.tumblr.com

happycuckoldress:

start with just the phrase, “…eagerly surrendering the most precious aspect of her body, her womb to his/their seed to impregnate her egg …” and it only gets better from there!

wiseone6602:

For me, it’s the total package that sends me over the edge with the whole idea of my wife breeding with black lovers. Unfortunately, it’s only a fantasy right now as we are not even swingers currently. She is a very ultra conservative, traditional woman who has a career in the public eye so it is…

ugh

May 19, 2013 14 notes
#racism #gross
May 19, 2013 269 notes
#rape culture

do-not-open-til-christmas:

So I read this play on sexual politics this morning that said AN ERECTION DOES NOT MEAN CONSENT.  Maybe not, but it does, at least, indicate a willingness to be given the opportunity to say tomorrow, “Golly, we had so much to drink that I don’t remember anything about last night!”

:/

May 18, 2013 6 notes

April 2013

Apr 20, 2013 1,950 notes
#gunplay #blurry edges #penis as threat
Apr 10, 2013 3,694 notes
Apr 7, 2013 1,027 notes
Apr 5, 2013 194 notes

March 2013

Mar 23, 2013 687 notes
#sadism olympics
And then I knewfuckyeahpornandstuff.tumblr.com

fuckyeahpornandstuff:

with just a simple sentence that YOU Sir… would NOT be my Dom… ever. haha like EVER EVER EVER. Yes… you have an excellent job, are 6’1”, have an awesome body, and are very handsome. But, you totally screwed up with “I have no idea what they could teach though… don’t you just hit them?” This response was after telling this fellow about a flogging class I went to.

“dont you just hit them?” mmmmkay… no. It is so much more than that. You don’t just pick up a flogger or any kind of BDSM toy and take a whack at the closest submissive you can find. It takes practice and skill, it takes knowing the safety and precautions, it takes knowing whether you’d like to be fancy and Florentine or figure 8, it takes knowing what kind of flogger you’d like, what fits best in your hand, how to clean it properly, what as a dominant makes YOU comfortable so that you can preform well on your submissive… it takes much more than just simply hitting someone. 

I’m sorry but I dunno it kind of floored me that he said that. I dont know if i’m overreacting. But… come on dude. What even… no. Just…no. haha

preach!

Mar 17, 2013 13 notes
Mar 6, 2013
#the unbearable whiteness of kink
Mar 6, 2013
#the unbearable whiteness of kink #racism #fuck the police

February 2013

Feb 28, 2013 76 notes
Feb 25, 2013 2,231 notes
Feb 24, 2013 1 note
Feb 24, 2013 4,394 notes
#BDSM acting school #exhibitionism standard
Feb 17, 2013 727 notes

January 2013

Jan 18, 2013 289 notes
#I don't even know what to call this #culture fail #reading fail #context fail #nonsensical
Jan 13, 2013 2,258 notes
Jan 12, 2013 21,629 notes
#blurry edges #essentialism #unsolicited advice
PIV contactfemdomcouple.tumblr.com

femdomcouple:

Yesterday evening my Mistress and I talked about her desire to have NO Penis in Vagina (PIV) contact anymore in our relationship.

She believes that PIV is a male dominant-act that doesnt suit her and her desires. She preferes anal and clitoral stimulation by my tongue.

It was an easy decision! We both felt this was far the best option.

She is sexually very dominant and prefers to fuck my ass above all!

I am (sexually) a very feminine sissyhusband that loves to get assfucked and loves to lick her ass and pussy.

This is New Marriage: female makes the man her pussyboi.

Jan 6, 2013 7 notes
#essentialism #no cock please we're dommes
Jan 1, 2013 152 notes
#painful pegging #cock as weapon

December 2012

bi-guy-blog:

When you get down to it, forcing a man to suck a cock is much more humiliating than forcing a woman to eat pussy. Don’t ya think?

NO.

I don’t.

Ugh.

Dec 31, 2012 4 notes
#all women are bisexual #cock as humiliator #essentialism
Dec 24, 2012 836 notes
Dec 13, 2012 375 notes
#sizeism #racism #fake facts #cock mocking #nonsensical
Dec 12, 2012 20 notes
#cock as humiliator #essentialism #blurry edges #unsolicited advice #vengeful women
Dec 10, 2012 2,213 notes
#nonsensical
Dec 9, 2012 14,172 notes
#blurry edges #sexual assualt #vengeful women
Dec 5, 2012 197 notes
#pornsheen #caption #nonsensical #essentialism #insults of endearment #cock as humiliator
Dec 5, 2012 2,589 notes
#image problem #mascara #no context #blurry edges

November 2012

Nov 30, 2012 134 notes
#blurry edges #racism #the unbearable whiteness of kink
Nov 30, 2012 98 notes
#One True Way #blurry edges #essentialism #kink as double vanilla #sexism #militantly binary
Nov 30, 2012 80 notes
#essentialism #nonsensical #no cock please we're dommes
Play
1:15
Nov 30, 2012 9,884 notes
#BDSM acting school #bitchmistress #hot guy wasted #looking at camera not sub #essentialism
Nov 30, 2012 1,455 notes
#BDSM acting school #accommodator #bitchmistress #chastity #cheesy dungeon #humiliation #pussy on display #sneering #no cock please we're dommes
Nov 30, 2012 36 notes
#corset #leather #mistress uniform #no faces #nonsensical
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