with just a simple sentence that YOU Sir… would NOT be my Dom… ever. haha like EVER EVER EVER. Yes… you have an excellent job, are 6’1”, have an awesome body, and are very handsome. But, you totally screwed up with “I have no idea what they could teach though… don’t you just hit them?” This response was after telling this fellow about a flogging class I went to.
“dont you just hit them?” mmmmkay… no. It is so much more than that. You don’t just pick up a flogger or any kind of BDSM toy and take a whack at the closest submissive you can find. It takes practice and skill, it takes knowing the safety and precautions, it takes knowing whether you’d like to be fancy and Florentine or figure 8, it takes knowing what kind of flogger you’d like, what fits best in your hand, how to clean it properly, what as a dominant makes YOU comfortable so that you can preform well on your submissive… it takes much more than just simply hitting someone.
I’m sorry but I dunno it kind of floored me that he said that. I dont know if i’m overreacting. But… come on dude. What even… no. Just…no. haha
preach!