Now this depresses me.
This is a graph showing spankings by gender on what is probably the most progressive (if white and binary) general-content bdsm/spanking site I know of. By that I mean:
• the company was founded and is run by a woman
• this...

Now this depresses me.

This is a graph showing spankings by gender on what is probably the most progressive (if white and binary) general-content bdsm/spanking site I know of. By that I mean:

  • the company was founded and is run by a woman
  • this woman TOTALLY GETS IT when it comes to gazing at men (and is kinda militant about it, woohoo)
  • the content is wonderful— nice production values, great interactions
  • the content is responsibly produced and fair-trade
  • there’s plenty of variety as far as types of spankings/scenarios/motivations
  • the models are not asked to interact sexually, so when they do it’s genuine (!)
  • includes at least one dominant-bottom/submissive-top spanking  (very hard to find)
  • includes models of fairly diverse body sizes
  • includes queer models
  • includes trans* models
  • no sleazy billing practices


And yet, these numbers.

They’re almost exactly what you’d see anywhere else.


Spankers are evenly matched genderwise (66 scenes with men, 64 with women, and 2 with both)… but when it comes to spankees, the ratio is nearly five to one in favor of women (109 scenes with spanked women versus just 23 with spanked men).



*depressed*

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