How to train a nigger female…

submissive-black-women:

This is from my own real life experience. I have had a variety of subs and slaves over the years, not just black ones. With black females, training is much the same as with other women, except with a few extras.

I always impress upon any black submissive female that her colour plays a significant part in how I treat her. I let her know that because she is black, she is inherently inferior to me and my people and this is drummed into her throughout her training.
[…]

When she goes out, I choose for her what she is allowed to wear. As she is a black female, the clothes I choose for her usually maximise the sluttiness of her body.
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From the moment the relationship starts, she may only ever address me as ‘Sir’, ‘Master’ or ‘Daddy’. This applies not only in the house but in front of her friends and out in public too.

Any black submissive I have learns that she is below any other sub I have of another colour. She is of course below white subs and even below Asian ones. I may allow the other subs to beat her or use her for their amusement and she learns to serve them when I’m not around, if I allow it.

There is even a hierarchy with black slaves. Those with very dark skin and heavy African features are the lowest of the low and inferior to light skinned black women with more Western features.

For any black slave, part of her teachings regarding her inferior status involves instructing her how to behave around white people as a whole, not just me.
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Her demeanour towards white people should always be respectful and obedient. She should never raise her voice to a white person and she should always go out of her way to make sure she never offends one.

She should appreciate that if she lives in a white country in the year 2013 she has a better quality of life than 90% of blacks living in the world; and she should be forever grateful for the opportunities white people have afforded her, which, she doesn’t really deserve.

Blacks are genuinely closer to animals than other races in some regards, which is why as a people their countries are so far behind everyone else’s. They are naturally more primitive, more violent and more given to base, carnal desires.

If blacks are not closely controlled and not regularly beaten to discourage anti-social behaviour, they become violent and detrimental to society.
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Nigger females should be taught from the beginning that their body is the main reason why their white master wants them. Her main role in life is to use her 3 holes to pleasure his dick as and when he chooses.
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As mentioned, beatings should be frequent and black women, with their bigger bottoms are well suited to being beaten. As part of their culture too, they are used to being physically dominated, even by their own bestial nigger males.

However, beatings by a white man aren’t just wanton violence - they are educational lessons and she is expected to learn from them.

Humiliation and objectification also play a part in helping to break her down as a person and remove from her any poisonous notion installed into her by society that she is inherently worth anything more than being a fuck-toy for men.

When she isn’t being beaten, fucked or put to work, I will often leave her chained up or tied up.
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If she has a job, then her salary should be paid into his bank account. She should have no money of her own unless he says otherwise - everything she needs will be bought by him. Her possessions should be turned over to him and her passport and other official documentation should be given to him upon moving in. She should be totally reliant upon him for existence.

From the moment she moves in with him, her whole life has one meaning - to please him. Nothing else matters.
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There is plenty more but this isn’t the place for large essays. Any questions or comments, feel free to message me.

Any place this guy is comfortable is a place I don’t want to be.

beyondthevalleyofthefemdoms:
“   freyasfancy:
“   It’s like I say…cocks don’t lie, do they?
”
I’ve decided I’m going to start using a new tag. #In The Valley will be used to criticize images that have harmful messages that are commonly found in BDSM...

beyondthevalleyofthefemdoms:

freyasfancy:

It’s like I say…cocks don’t lie, do they?

I’ve decided I’m going to start using a new tag. #In The Valley will be used to criticize images that have harmful messages that are commonly found in BDSM culture. I’ll also use appropriate trigger warnings so people can use Tumblr Savior to avoid things that might be particularly harmful to them on an individual level. Other people are welcome to use the #In the Valley tag for their own criticism.

This particular rant isn’t about female dominants, but it is about an idea that seems to proliferate in heterosexual femdom culture. That idea is that if a cis man (or person of other gender with external genitalia, but usually a cis man) is hard, that equals some kind of expression of desire or consent.

Not only is this idea not true, but it can lead to rape and sexual assault of cis male submissives and bottoms, or submissives and bottoms who have external genitalia in general (although in my experience, queer culture seems more aware of the fact that engorged external genitalia ≠ consent).

The only way to know if someone wants to do a certain thing is if they explicitly say, “yes, I want to do this thing.” People with external genitalia can get erections for an assortment of reasons, some of which don’t involve being turned on. And even if someone IS hard because they’re turned on, that doesn’t mean that they feel OK about doing a particular thing. People can get turned on by things they find triggering, for example. And if you’re a good person, you don’t want to trigger your partner (exception: there are some kinds of edge play that involve consensual triggering. However, that kind of play also needs to be EXPLICITLY NEGOTIATED AND CONSENSUAL in order to be ethical).


Listen to what your submissives, bottoms, and partners of other stripes say with their mouths, if you don’t want to be a rapist. I don’t think I can be any clearer than that.

Thank you.

Not only can it lead to sexual assault, it’s one of the biggest things that keeps penis-owning assault victims from reporting after the fact, because they’re not taken seriously. Which leads to more assault. And so on. Rape culture, you might have heard about it.

It may be a hot thing for you to think about, and that’s fine. But you must recognize that at that point you’re fantasizing. As in, fantasy. As in, alternate universe. As in, not reality. It’s like… it’s the difference between fantasizing about Femdom Island or Gor or whatever, and actually believing that subs have no rights.


#male rape myths
#the Pirate Problem

whyisithot:
“       mansdrill:
“       Just one reason. It don’t even have to be a good one.
”
Gunplay terrifies me.
I like guns, to be perfectly honest with you — find them interesting machines — and I’ve always been curious about what it feels like...

whyisithot:

mansdrill:

Just one reason. It don’t even have to be a good one.

Gunplay terrifies me. 

I like guns, to be perfectly honest with you — find them interesting machines — and I’ve always been curious about what it feels like to be shot.  Seeing guns used in sexual situations, though— it makes everything in me just clench in cold horror. 

Guns are a kind of void; they lack an opinion  on the subject, they will shoot wherever they’re aimed.  What matters is the capricious will of the person who holds the gun.  The gun may not kill people (as the NRA says), but it makes it a whole hell of a lot easier (as Eddie Izzard says).  So shoving a gun in someone’s mouth— it’s not just a dick replacement, it’s using a dick replacement to kill the person. When you’re using a knife, when you’re infecting someone, it’s personal.  The gun, even this close, implies a level of detachment.

It’s an intense threat.  I can see why it’s hot, I think, because of that detachment and that threat.  But— oh, god, what terror it gives me!

This is a fairly common depiction of gunplay.

Gunplay perhaps “terrifies” me, but in a different way. A meta way. This commenter gets at my problem at bit: the idea of gun-as-penis and vice versa— penis as weapon— I don’t like it. It’s just too real. Too true.

It’s just too true that people use penises to threaten and injure. I mean, it’s really very disturbing if you think about it. The more you zoom out, the worse it gets. What are handguns for? They’re for killing humans, or at least wounding them gravely. That is literally their only purpose. They’re for harming (and as such, they’re a threat). Now: consider your penis a gun. See the problem? The leap from that idea to rape is a really short one.

So yeah. The edges are far too blurry; I can’t fantasize it. I can’t/don't believe it’s merely a fantasy— there’s a real belief there that I don’t believe can be turned off. Not least because people don’t even realize it’s on in the first place. The idea just sort of filters in unnoticed: penises hurt. I mean, I think it’s pretty arguable that this idea is why people conflate dominance and penises. Penis=weapon → weapon=power → penis=power.



Maybe “terrorizes” is a better word.
It scares me deeply to see people wallowing in this idea, thoughtlessly cementing it with possibly the greatest human training tool there is— sexual pleasure. As a woman, this threat is very real to me. It applies to me in a very direct way, all the time, everywhere. It’s not something I can forget. I suspect I’m not meant to be able to forget it.

sexualdestinies:
“ passionshesaid:
“ This.
”
This … Men…. Always works!!!!
”
No it doesn’t.
Fuck arbitrary rules. Look at and interact with THAT PERSON, RIGHT THEN, not some porn playbook.
And? Aggression is not the only way you (men) have to show...

sexualdestinies:

passionshesaid:

This.

This … Men…. Always works!!!!

No it doesn’t.

Fuck arbitrary rules. Look at and interact with THAT PERSON, RIGHT THEN, not some porn playbook.

And? Aggression is not the only way you (men) have to show love and desire. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS. Fuck.

First of all: This never happened. It is a hoax. Are you really this gullible?
Second: I find it depressing that so many people wish it had. What this describes is a violent, 3-day rape. Haha…? And yeah, I get the whole REVERSAL, MOTHERFUCKERS!! glee...

First of all: This never happened. It is a hoax. Are you really this gullible?

Second: I find it depressing that so many people wish it had. What this describes is a violent, 3-day rape. Haha…? And yeah, I get the whole REVERSAL, MOTHERFUCKERS!! glee or whatever, but… it doesn’t make it better. For some reason, this fake-clipping has major legs among kinksters in particular— femdoms in particular particular— and again, I find that super depressing. And irritating. Way to feed the people who think fdoms are actually manhating harpies bent on humiliation and revenge, and not simply women who enjoy sex a certain way. Thanks for the help!

Third: what are you, 10? Giggidy, giggidy? Does your brain just shut off at the first sign of the prurient, as all blood drains to your nads? Cuz, that's… worrisome.

The face of BDSM.

This is what they see when they look at us.

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flickofaswitch:
“ ajourney-intosubmission:
“ an-othersideofme:
“ corruptwhites:
“ It’s NEVER cheating with a Black Guy. Ask any white wife.
”
This made me crack up, thinking about things from last night…
”
Brb, forwarding this to my ex pronto.
”
I...

flickofaswitch:

ajourney-intosubmission:

an-othersideofme:

corruptwhites:

It’s NEVER cheating with a Black Guy. Ask any white wife.

This made me crack up, thinking about things from last night…

Brb, forwarding this to my ex pronto.

I literally just choked on a cracker reading this. Mostly because it showed up on my dash at the perfect time and made me think about this morning.

>:(

Fuck you all.

Do us a favor and choke on a cracker.

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Seriously, what the fuck is this shit? No. Deep breath.

I ask you, in a quiet tone of voice. What is this shit.

I want to know EXACTLY why it’s not cheating if it’s with a black guy. Help me out.  What— exactly— are you saying here? (And I’m just wondering: what if you and/or your husband are black. Is it not cheating then? And so on. (What do you mean, you never thought about it?))

Because FYI, it’s not looking good! I mean, seriously: the caption reduces the man in the picture (and black men in general) to an easily-available nonsentient commodity/object whose only reason for existence is to provide transient physical pleasure to the person consuming it.

What am I supposed to think?? What do you think. I’m going to think. When I see that? Surely, you don’t honestly believe that “YKINMKBYKIOK” is going to cover this.

What do you mean, you never thought about it?!!??

This is what I’m talking about when I say that a good chunk of the so-called “cuckolding” I see should really just be called "Mandingo fetish.“ This is the unbearable whiteness of Kink.

malesubmissionart:
Four lists, arranged in columns, describe traits commonly associated with “men,” “women,” “dominants” and “submissives,” respectively.
The column labeled “Act like a man” bears striking similarities to the column “Act like a...

malesubmissionart:

Four lists, arranged in columns, describe traits commonly associated with “men,” “women,” “dominants” and “submissives,” respectively.

The column labeled “Act like a man” bears striking similarities to the column “Act like a dominant,” while the column labeled “Act like a woman” closely resembles the items in the list marked “Act like a submissive.”

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